The beginning of a relationship is often the best time. Feeling that rush of emotion, finding common interests, and doing fun things together that solidify a path forward together. Endings on the other hand, can be really tough. Sometimes you aren’t sure if you want to end things, so you hang on and try a million things to make things different. Or you might know you should end things, but have tried and don’t seem to be able to make it stick. Other times you feel overwhelmed and not really sure what to do.
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A mother was making a special Easter dinner, and her young daughter was helping her out in preparing the big feast. The daughter was in charge of making the salad, while Mom turned her attention to getting the ham into the oven.
Jenna walked into the coffee shop and saw her friend Amy in the corner, already seated and drinking her usual Grande Mocha Latte. Amy smiled and waved, but Jenna immediately noticed that something seemed a bit off. To most people, it would have seemed that Amy was happy and looking forward to catching up with a friend. Jenna and Amy had been friends since they were in grade school, and Jenna was confused at what it was that seemed amiss about her good friend. As she picked up her coffee at the counter and sat down at the table, she saw a bruise on her left cheek almost expertly covered by makeup. “Hey good to see you! What happened here?” Jenna said pointing to Amy’s face. Amy’s smile crumpled and she said something about an accident. She quickly tried to steer the conversation to Jenna, after all they hadn’t seen each other in a while. Jenna noted that it had been too long since they were able to get together. She had texted her a bunch of times to hang out, but Amy typically said she was busy. Amy had started seeing her boyfriend, Brandon, seven months ago. Jenna noticed that her friend always seemed to have reasons not to see her, which wasn’t like her.
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AuthorDr. Kim Guarascio, PhD is a New York State Licensed Psychologist who has been providing treatment for teens, young adults and adults for nearly 20 years in Central New York. The focus of her professional career has been centered on the empowerment of women, particularly those who have experienced trauma and abuse. Archives
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